The Reason Broke Men Should Avoid Dating Beautiful Women

In Hollywood films, there are several love stories about couples getting through the “tough” times together, and surviving the worst of financial hardship, as a formidable team. The film flows like a magical carpet ride that strongly suggests sweet kisses and expressions is all you need to be a successful couple. But only if life played out like our favorite movies, it could all be so simple, right? Unfortunately wrong. Unsurprisingly, part of the reasons today’s couples fail is because the union looked to fantasized relationship models, to be a beacon of light for them. This leads to crushing disappointment.

Imagine driving on the high speed highway in the dark with just one headlight on. That’s what dating broke is like. You can see and feel yourself moving, but you can’t exactly make out the objects ahead or behind. Below in detail are 3 main reasons you shouldn’t date as a man when broke.

1. You immediately limit your options, and are subject to disastrous results. You may be a good person. You even may have good intentions. But your limited wallet is going to completely stop you in your tracks to successfully date most eligible and attractive women. Women who you are attracted to can only take you so serious after finding out your finances are not in order. They will begin to find reasons to excuse themselves away from you. In addition, let’s say you have some success with a woman. If another man who even has a slightly more stable situation than you approaches her, he is going to be the more attractive option. It’s way better to be able to compete and hold your own in the dating marketplace.

2. Your self image and respect will take a hit. You can be charming, intelligent, funny, and smooth. And yes those traits will of course attract women to you. But if you lack the funds to facilitate memorable experiences, it will ultimately be in vain. Your best personality traits, valuable skills/knowledge, and your money work together as great team. They are all important regarding being an attractive available man. Dating can add up over time. As you are not able to participate in fun activities that would make great dates due to lack of dollars, it will take a toll on your mental well being. It could pick at your overall confidence and begin to install self doubt.

3. You will not be able to hold a woman to any standards. So you bypass your dating rules. Lucky you. You were able to get an attractive woman to actually want to be your girlfriend. Well, Look at you. But here is the thing – while you’re able to charm her into a relationship, it will get harder to keep her there over time. Your financial problems will keep popping its head out making both of you uncomfortable. She will eventually question if she can see an actual future with you. When you date while broke, you are building the relationship on a house of cards. Anything easily could knock it over during to the fact that you are not financially stable.

It’s ok to take yourself out the game for awhile and work on yourself. Your future self will thank you in the end. The goal is to have better dating experiences, having a solid financial foundation is a key to that.

Do you believe that a man’s pocketbook makes dating more difficult for him? 💵