KISSY’S THOUGHTS:
Oftentimes when your family and friends don’t like the man you’re dating, they are seeing something that you can’t see. Take heed. Don’t immediately assume they are jealous. They want what’s best for you.
When a man needs money from you or for you to financially do things for him, that’s a huge red flag that you’re not dealing with a good man. Good men simply don’t want nor need money from their woman. Don’t even bother THINKING that maybe this one is different. It doesn’t matter. Don’t bother feeling sympathy for him, because he doesn’t have it together. Men often HATE women who financially help them, because they start to feel that you see them as LESS THAN. They do not see your actions as LOVE. Especially not the narcissistic ones. You don’t have time for ANY man who financially needs you. Keep it moving.
You do not get bonus points for being a “nice”, self-sacrificial woman. But you will get ran over. A lot of people in this world truly operate with God in their heart. You love everybody and will give people your last. You have to stop that. Or if you won’t stop, you have to only allow GOOD PEOPLE with good spirits to be around you.
Women in this world have been lead to believe to put themselves last and to put everyone else before them. Especially Christians have this bad. That is the EXACT reason why people don’t appreciate you. No matter how kind you, how loving you are, or how sweet you are, this world is mostly filled with vultures and YES, people will take advantage of you. Some people don’t care how loving you are. And the more you give to them, the more they abuse you or try to hurt you.
As a woman, if your man doesn’t worship the ground you walk on, you may as well jump off of a bridge. Because that’s exactly what you’re doing to yourself when you deal with a man who doesn’t love you in a HEALTHY manner that causes you to feel good about yourself and increase your self-esteem. Women were created to be loved. God create Eve to give a man something to LOVE. So if a man doesn’t fully love you by both PROTECTING & PROVIDING for you, then he’s not a good man. Don’t see it any other way. Don’t let men try to explain why they aren’t doing for you. Just cut any man off that’s not bringing his A game. Period. And don’t listen to chicks who slave hard because they feel for the okay doke of a 50/50 man. 99% of the time she’s drained and doesn’t even have happy photos of herself on her Facebook profile.
You don’t have time to wait on a man to get it together. Loyalty is for your husband only. You don’t have time to feel sorry for a man cause he doesn’t know how to love. You don’t have time for NONE of his excuses.
You deserve a good man RIGHT NOW, not tomorrow. NO, you don’t have to suffer first. NO, you don’t have to be a down azz b*tch first and prove your worth.
Go get my new book “You Can’t Force A Man To Value You – Becoming a High Value Woman & Attracting Your Dream Man.” You are here on earth to meet the man of your dreams and get married. Everything else is just a distraction. So if he is not showing up as that man TODAY, then he has to go. POTENTIAL is for college kids. Everyone else has to already be in motion.
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