Mavericks owner Mark Cuban picks up ex-NBA star Delonte West at gas station, offers to pay for rehab’ after photos emerge of the 37-year-old begging on the streets

Chicks are about to get hot water cornbread mad at me for this (I gives no phucks), but sometimes when people say pretty is as pretty does, I usually curse them out and tell them to stop hating on pretty women. But in this situation I really get it.

Like Sis, how are you phucking married to an NBA star and you can’t keep the ninja on his game? How does your husband get this phucking strung out under YOUR watch? This man received $14 Million in salary at the peak of his career. I understand he was on the road, you couldn’t control him, but in many ways, you actually can.

I’m so tired of people getting in relationships talking about their mate isn’t their responsibility. WTF do they need you for if you can’t help keep them on point?

Chicks be married to men, and let them get fat. Men be going out of town visiting the same woman for years, flying her on vacation, meanwhile he keeps getting bigger and bigger. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Women marry 50/50 men who let HER die early from doing HALF of his work. It’s all insanity. Then the boys grow up thinking he saw his mom in a nice loving 50/50 relationship. He doesn’t even account for the fact she died early and the real reason why.

I saw a meme quote about Will Smith floating around the other day and posted it to my IG story with my thoughts.

If you ask me, people just don’t care enough about their mates. And the ones who do, often get called stupid, self-sacrificial and a bunch of other names.

Like all of the women who’ve built up men to make 6-7 figures and now he’s off with the next chick, acting like you’re not the one who kicked his azz into shape and MADE him become the man he claimed he wanted to be.

Men these days be such crybabies, Always crying for their limitations, crying when their woman tells them their behavior isn’t good enough. So then those men end up with silent women who collect the check and let them do them.

One time I was with a man, and he used to take me out of town all over the place. He would stay at my place for weeks. (I’m one of those women who barely goes to other people’s houses, cause mind tends to be decorated better than theirs.)

Anyway, my friend once told me something was up with the guy cause I’d never been to his house. I didn’t listen. Anyway, long story short, 6-months in, I find out this dude has a WHOLE WIFE.

Like he was a straight Playboy, he just didn’t seem to be the kind of guy who would have a wife. Heck, I found out he had all kinds of women. I wondered how the phuck a woman could let her husband get so out of control. AND he made her pay half the bills. I left him and he’s dead now.

I don’t care what anyone says. When you get married that person is under your care and guidance. Their doctors shouldn’t care about them more than you do. I’ve never had a man fall under my watch. Heck, my friends don’t even fall under my watch. They RISE. Even as a teen I learned how to play with a man’s mind and get him to RISE in his own best interest. (Men pay me to coach them now.)

I’ve been around men who told me to stop bending down to help homeless people and give them money because it’s dangerous, only for that same man to call me weeks later and tell me that he saw and father and son hungry and he bought them a Popeyes meal. He was so happy to tell me he too was now contributing to society and serving people where he could.

Average people have relationships twisted and so does the light and love crew. If I can’t maintain my mate at a high standard I’m breaking up with them and giving another woman a chance to come and be the light. No way I would just sit around and watch another soul break down and fall apart.

A mate is supposed to pick up your strength when you are weak. I believe too many people expect to be in a relationship without being 100% emotionally invested. And the people who do tend to have someone who is 100% emotionally invested tend to take it for granted.

When I listen to the light and love community these days, all they talk about is detaching from emotions. Everyone is going towards these robotic states of relationships that are actually void of real love.

But those are just my thoughts. If you are upset with anything I said, keep it to yourself. Today is just not the day for me to hear the voices of people who fail to take responsibility for their household.

I talk a lot of ish about men sometimes. But men are right. They must really be careful about the kind of woman they choose to marry. A woman that’s not going to keep you on the straight and narrow is simply not good for you. A woman that’s going to let you do whatever you want and still be with her, is not good for high performing men.

Anyway, that’s the end of my ramble. It really upsets me when people don’t fully love their mates and go all out for them.

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